They told me they have the right to delete my account because I put a link in my bio to another website (which is absolutely safe). things I will never get back now. Was unaware of postings for my 8 year old daughter and recently deceased mother-in-law. You then control exactly what's on the memorial. Action, and change of name on Memorial or transfer to myself so I can put pertinent information on the Memorial. Then why do you think they have the Burial Unknown Mechanic, Lee? I am wandering am I, going to have to pay Ancestery .Com now for all the info that was suppose to be free on find. Weve updated the security on the site. i visited the cemetery he is buried at and i did not find his grave. The new marker really looked nice. Bill Sky-Eagle. When posting pictures it is proper to cite the owner of the photograph. It's bad players like these that makes you question the motives of some of the [censored] contributors. Seriously? They email the requester and tell them that they sent a message to the memorial owner. internet is free to use. Its directed at those whos compulsion is to have as many as they can for their own greedy ego. yes it's funeral site. In other words, if the contact person is "not accepting messages, " and they do this intentionally, you won't be able to reach them, to request management control. Get those cheap skates to pay you! In my case I created a memoral 4 my Grandmother and also a memorial for a favoured child who died in infancy. Desired outcome: In many cases these ghouls comb local obits and reprint them on Find A Grave. For more than 15 years we have helped nearly 50000 customers resolve their issues and will never stop striving to ensure further improvements on our platform for a better communication between companies and customers. So Ancestry is breaking Find a Grave's guidelines. Solution: Make a new account, follow the rules, and be nice. If you follow the process, you can get the change made - but it isn't a speedy process. This politically correct world is becoming ridicules when we can't even tell historical facts about people .One of my relatives committed suicide because his wife left him do to he drank to much . My sister's grave is on this site, Eilleen Sien of Colonia, N.J Contacted me by phone and Face Book, my Family DID NOT WANT this information posted! It is in fact not precious hard work, it is simply walking around and taking pictures of graves. Can I charge money as a Photo Volunteer? This should only be about putting up memorials and helping people find their loved ones, THAT'S IT. The mechanics do not work like you were brainwashed to believe. That Find a Grave be consistent. There have been 250K claims filed against the government. Cannot contact him because he is not taking questions His name is Jeff Hubbard. Well, Sharon Haywood, many of the volunteers here don't even hold an ounce of respect when they do this. No materials from this website may be copied, reproduced, republished, uploaded, posted, transmitted, or distributed in any way. Desired outcome: It's a wonderful starting point for research, though I'd never, ever take anything I found on the site as credible in itself. But this past month has been a nightmare. . Findagrave.com user terms require anyone managing a memorial to turn management control over to a direct relative when requested. Consider it a blessing. Graves do not have copyrights either. You can suggest additions or corrections and the manager can choose to use those to improve the memorial. When I confronted this whale of a whale to relinquished ownership and return the memorial back to me I was banned. I couldn't care less about the number of memorials I create (you refer to these as "points"; I assure you, they are not); have GREAT empathy, compassion and respect when it comes to the dead, and certainly don't chase bodies. Be aware, many of these idiots will NOT give you management and when you contact findagrave.com they don't care. what is findagrave, answer me. Find a Grave - Millions of Cemetery Records World's largest gravesite collection. I have had Bios i wrote stolen and posted elsewhere with no mention of me writing those. When I protested FindAGrave blocked my isp and booted me out. I could not have been able to see my fathers grave plot at all. Get a life. I have no issue with someone adding OLD graves they found while walking the cemeteries. Desired outcome is for Wendy EBENSTEIN Norman to transfer my grandfather's Find a Grave Memorial Page to me. Find a Grave uses volunteers to assemble burial/body disposition details about individuals. It shouldn't be about having 7, 000 memorials, nor should anyone "own" a cemetery (I had an issue with a woman over that as well and finally decided the hell with her, if she didn't have one of the people buried, than I added it). Many memorials are created with information about survivors. Account question or Support Request Update to memorial Update cemetery Question for the cemetery Website Feedback Find a Grave 1300 West Traverse Parkway Lehi, UT 84043 The point hasn't anything to do with the validity of Find A Grave, but rather do you want you family added to their lists and plastered all over the net. + Locate grave sites of your loved ones through . It is both hurtful and embarrassing to family members. Mostly we are retired in any case. I do not care how many countless hours "Find A Grave's cyber ghouls put into it. And daily scanning of obituaries to add and having 200k memorials? If you don't want her known, then remove her headstone or put her in a more private place (urn). Assure them you'll go legal and watch then cave. I contacted FindAGrave and they ignored my requests even though their new rules of conduct r very explicit that when confronted these "major contributors" supposed to turn memorials back to the family. Not everyone who provides this service (and yes it is a service maybe not to you NOW but to future generations who will be very happy someone like me gifted my time and love for family history to make sure their ancestor could be found.. definitely). My mother-in-law's site is totally inaccurate; says where she's buried. Truly pathetic. God bless you all ! 04/17/2022 I do a few memorials for family and friends. Kristy is an internationally known Psychic Medium and Psychic Detective. I mean, it's a "public" cemetery, not one in private family hands and as mentioned in a earlier post, when you die the privacy is gone, period. Don't buy into it. Failure of Wendy Ebenstein Norman to transfer my grandfather's Memorial Page to me, after numerous requests. everyone wants the records to be as correct as we can get them! Read full review of Find A Grave and 2 comments. Sometimes someone doesn't live up to our expectations. Ancestry provides a myriad of beneficial services; Find A Grave is yet another website providing beneficial information. It requires patience. Ask for permission. Somehow my email address was changed and I am no longer allowed to sign in as info comes up "does not match" I have written to Finda Grave many times requesting a correction. A Grave .Com ? For consumers, it can happen through online feedback forms or customer service countersbut consumer complaints are a separate matter. Anyone else wants to make "corrections", like a bored housewife, YOU get to decline. Megan Heyl to give my son back. Removing pics at their request is Respect. My thoughts were not on the heartless soul collectors of Find A Grave when I heard the news. He had joined the army when he was about 18 and spent the first few years in Ireland. By scanning the Internet, you can find and save more than 180 million graves worldwide. Since my daughter's crime is unsolved I have reported this to the detectives on the case. Sure, sure if you're anal enough to enjoy all that cataloging and picture takin, etc then fine, but your getting screwed and smiling about it Might want to learn some self respect. On Ancestry, in the "global" index for body dispositions that are unknown, surviving relatives are mentioned on those find a grave memorial pages. It's definitely not a contest. if you put your daughter photo online, anyone can also use it without letting you know Added almost 3000 memorials. Im of southern heritage and I'm betting nearly 50 percent of Ancestry.Com's paying customers are too! This is totally wrong. Furthermore, nobody actually "owns" a grave. I don't know who took your daughter's photo (or anyone else in here). Unless you really know that person, u can directly share or steal. Once redeemed these souls may enter heaven and start having children. Features: + Access the largest online collection of burial info for free. My lawyer has been contacted. Voila! from 5 Stanford Green, Walkinstown, Dublin Showing 1-1 | Showing Page 1 of 1. Many f## people are very unfriednly, when ladybug reported you, findagrave banned you so you can NOT see anything. I was wondering if they shut down. Other details can be found and verified on one of the family history websites - some of which are free. The information is public, online or not. Please enter your email address and we will send you an email with a reset password code. The free plan is basic. so, u guys can also see that, steal people family/friend funeral is stupid. I haven't had any problems with anyone or them, so don't have a clue what is going on. It's actually not "funny" (your word) that other people are skirting the Find A Grave rules while you attempted to do so as well. Even if it's only photo share, if you not ask owner. That's a lot of money. There is a process to get memorials transferred. You must ask permission from the deceased person's family before you take those headstone photos. Owners of private property on which a cemetery or graves are located shall have a duty to allow ingress and egress to the cemetery or graves by (i) family members and descendants of deceased persons buried there; (ii) any cemetery plot owner; (iii) any person engaging in genealogy research, who has given reasonable notice to the owner of Findagrave is gross and obscene. FuryH, Forms, by Agency Find a U.S. federal government form by choosing the agency that publishes it. Also sending me arrogant emails in response to my disapproval. unless you really know that person Nobody would love f## site. They play upon emotion. She's also violating her fiduciary role as a "Findagrave" volunteer. compete on how many records make is useless. Remove the name of the original creator & the number from their count when the memorial is transferred to a family member. By the time I got home 2 hours later my family was already loaded. I personally manage a few sites that are people related to me through marriage, and several relatives more than one generation removed from me. I've received over 100 thank you emails from people who were searching for a loved one and happened upon the memorial or the photo of the loved one or their headstone. I have contacted find a grave through their website and received one response but no corrections! God Speed.